Everyone has wins and losses.

Losing does not render one a loser, because having such losses is inevitable.

In this way, it is not one of our choices to avoid it.

Instead, we will choose whether to learn from our losses or not.

Consequently, in the context of losses, we will be choosing whether to be learners or a losers.

Learn from both your wins and your losses in life, and nothing can stop you.

How do you do it?

Spend only a little time on guilt and even less time on blame.

What’s left after you subtract those two is awareness: how it happened and how you would rewrite your part in it the next time — because as long as you are alive, there will be a next time.

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